...“Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven... Matthew 18:3
This week I had a very visceral encounter with the Lord, and while I don't blog very often...or nearly ever, I needed to get this one down.
This one has a ton of detail and background, but this is probably more for me than you :-)
The last few months, so Rachelle tells me, I had been slowly losing my joy. I hadn't noticed it, I was just living life in ministry and doing everything I could to be a better husband and dad, but slowly not experiencing joy in life with family or in ministry.The last two months have really been the worst, and came to a head late last week, on my 38th birthday. That day, I was acting more like I was 8 than 38. It was my birthday, Rachelle was out of town, and I was mad. Mad that i didn't get any birthday cards, mad that I only got one gift, mad that I wasn't being built up on my birthday, it was just another day. Then I got even more mad because I realized how I was acting so selfishly like a child.
Rachelle got home and sat me down that night to let me know how I had been down and asking where my joy had gone. Kate had asked her, "What's wrong with dad? He hasn't been himself." and when I heard that I finally realized how I was feeling.I was feeling unworthy and unwanted in my life.
One other sweet image I had was after the skin is peeled off Eustace, he was a naked little boy that was tossed into the living waters and redressed by Aslan. I remembered when I first came to the Lord that I was given another image, an image of me standing in front of a room at a Young Life camp sharing the Gospel with them. I realized then that I'm that kid again and that 22 years later, I will be speaking for the first time at a YL camp. If you're bringing kids that weekend, watch out. The Lord has been working on this one for 22 years, and I'm going to spend my next few months trying to catch up with Him.
Sure, ministry is going ok here, but something in me was longing for more, wanting to be pursued and not feeling pursued by anyone or anything. I went through the next hours in my deep introspective self, again trying my best to figure out how I can fix this and be happy again.
The next morning I woke up early and went off to our annual staff retreat. This is a time away from the area with other staff which always sets a great tone for the semester, as we spend time seeking the Lord and doing the business of YL, with a bit of fun and play sprinkled in. The first morning had lots of good stuff in it, I'm sure, but I had no desire to be there. My heart was hard and I was just trying to get through the 60 hours so I could get back home and do what I thought was my 'real' work.
In the afternoon it was announced that we were going bowling. I hate bowling. I've always been surprised at how much bowling costs and never thought it worth the money (I'm probably cheap, I know) so off we went to another activity that I didn't really want to be at.
I was put on a team with some other YL staff and it was announced that there were prizes for the winning team. In my heart, I knew we would lose, I had my heart nice and hard and told God how I was tired of coming in second and that's what I had expected to happen again here. We started bowling and I quickly gave up the idea of being second as I quickly found myself bowling 5s and 2s, a horrid 27 through 4 frames.Then I bowled my 5th frame. I bowled a strike and something clicked, I knew that if I started on this plank of wood and looked this exact way and bowled this way, that I could do pretty well. I told the Lord that I was going to try to do well and that I was going to show him that I always end up losing. I quickly found a groove and ended up being the high score on the top team. We had won!
Then it was announced that we were not taking the score from 1 game but 2 games, and I was peeved. My selfish little heart said, "I knew it" and we began a second game. A couple of my teammates started poorly, but I was peeved now, so I was trying even harder. I started my game with a turkey and people started to notice what I was doing. I kept bowling and trying out of spite and kept doing pretty well, quickly noticing that the top score of the day was going to go to either me or the guy on lane 8. I figured it would be him, but kept trying to show God how much I lose.
We got to the end, calculations were done and not only was I the top score but our team had won! I continued to be a bit grumpy but smiled a little bit as I knew there was a gift coming. After dinner the very nice prize was passed out, then there was a prize for the top score. I had won two very nice gifts.
We went from this into a time of worship that started with scripture:
We went into another time of scripture:
“The One that God sent speaks God’s words. And don’t think he rations out the Spirit in bits and pieces. The Father loves the Son extravagantly. He turned everything over to him so he could give it away—a lavish distribution of gifts. That is why whoever accepts and trusts the Son gets in on everything, life complete and forever! And that is also why the person who avoids and distrusts the Son is in the dark and doesn’t see life. All he experiences of God is darkness, and an angry darkness at that.” John 3:34-36 (MSG)
I found myself not believing what I had just heard. How could I not believe scripture? I struggled as I did not feel like this was true for me. A lavish distribution of gifts? Has he not seen my time lately with everything? I've had it hard lately with feeling bad and people attacking my work and desires and .... heck, my insurance guy didn't even send me a birthday card!
Then it came back to me, that image of the dragon. I couldn't stand it so I took out my phone and Googled, "dragon peeling heart" and this was the first hit. A blog post recounting the story of Eustace in The Voyage of the Dawn Treader where Eustace has turned rotten and is trying to peel off his skin so that he can get into the living waters that Aslan is near and stop the pain in his arm caused by a bracelet that's now too small.
Eustace tries 3 times then Aslan tells him that he must let him do it. I spent the next worship session in visceral pain as I realized that was me. I was trying and trying so hard to peel away and I needed Jesus to dig His claw in there and rip off the layers. I implored the Lord to do that, with the image of the dragon on his back, exposed and fully submitted to Aslan and I begged for that!
I believe that the Lord met me and took a good amount of that skin off of me that day. I have a little more pep in my step and bounce for the ounce. I realize He isn't done, but I'm looking forward to a semester of laying on my back in submission to the Lord.
This week I had a very visceral encounter with the Lord, and while I don't blog very often...or nearly ever, I needed to get this one down.
This one has a ton of detail and background, but this is probably more for me than you :-)
The last few months, so Rachelle tells me, I had been slowly losing my joy. I hadn't noticed it, I was just living life in ministry and doing everything I could to be a better husband and dad, but slowly not experiencing joy in life with family or in ministry.The last two months have really been the worst, and came to a head late last week, on my 38th birthday. That day, I was acting more like I was 8 than 38. It was my birthday, Rachelle was out of town, and I was mad. Mad that i didn't get any birthday cards, mad that I only got one gift, mad that I wasn't being built up on my birthday, it was just another day. Then I got even more mad because I realized how I was acting so selfishly like a child.
Rachelle got home and sat me down that night to let me know how I had been down and asking where my joy had gone. Kate had asked her, "What's wrong with dad? He hasn't been himself." and when I heard that I finally realized how I was feeling.I was feeling unworthy and unwanted in my life.
One other sweet image I had was after the skin is peeled off Eustace, he was a naked little boy that was tossed into the living waters and redressed by Aslan. I remembered when I first came to the Lord that I was given another image, an image of me standing in front of a room at a Young Life camp sharing the Gospel with them. I realized then that I'm that kid again and that 22 years later, I will be speaking for the first time at a YL camp. If you're bringing kids that weekend, watch out. The Lord has been working on this one for 22 years, and I'm going to spend my next few months trying to catch up with Him.
Sure, ministry is going ok here, but something in me was longing for more, wanting to be pursued and not feeling pursued by anyone or anything. I went through the next hours in my deep introspective self, again trying my best to figure out how I can fix this and be happy again.
The next morning I woke up early and went off to our annual staff retreat. This is a time away from the area with other staff which always sets a great tone for the semester, as we spend time seeking the Lord and doing the business of YL, with a bit of fun and play sprinkled in. The first morning had lots of good stuff in it, I'm sure, but I had no desire to be there. My heart was hard and I was just trying to get through the 60 hours so I could get back home and do what I thought was my 'real' work.
In the afternoon it was announced that we were going bowling. I hate bowling. I've always been surprised at how much bowling costs and never thought it worth the money (I'm probably cheap, I know) so off we went to another activity that I didn't really want to be at.
I was put on a team with some other YL staff and it was announced that there were prizes for the winning team. In my heart, I knew we would lose, I had my heart nice and hard and told God how I was tired of coming in second and that's what I had expected to happen again here. We started bowling and I quickly gave up the idea of being second as I quickly found myself bowling 5s and 2s, a horrid 27 through 4 frames.Then I bowled my 5th frame. I bowled a strike and something clicked, I knew that if I started on this plank of wood and looked this exact way and bowled this way, that I could do pretty well. I told the Lord that I was going to try to do well and that I was going to show him that I always end up losing. I quickly found a groove and ended up being the high score on the top team. We had won!
Then it was announced that we were not taking the score from 1 game but 2 games, and I was peeved. My selfish little heart said, "I knew it" and we began a second game. A couple of my teammates started poorly, but I was peeved now, so I was trying even harder. I started my game with a turkey and people started to notice what I was doing. I kept bowling and trying out of spite and kept doing pretty well, quickly noticing that the top score of the day was going to go to either me or the guy on lane 8. I figured it would be him, but kept trying to show God how much I lose.
We got to the end, calculations were done and not only was I the top score but our team had won! I continued to be a bit grumpy but smiled a little bit as I knew there was a gift coming. After dinner the very nice prize was passed out, then there was a prize for the top score. I had won two very nice gifts.
We went from this into a time of worship that started with scripture:
At this time, Jesus came from Nazareth in Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan. The moment he came out of the water, he saw the sky split open and God’s Spirit, looking like a dove, come down on him. Along with the Spirit, a voice: “You are my Son, chosen and marked by my love, pride of my life.” Mark 1:9-11 (MSG)
The question was asked, "What if this is what God has to say about you?" That's when it hit me and I thought to myself, "Crap, this is for me" As we spent time worshiping after this scripture I buried my face into my hands and saw something weird. I saw clearly a dragon claw scratching at a scaly, orange belly, as if it were my claw and my scaly belly. I also knew this was something I had read about in the past but couldn't place where it was from.We went into another time of scripture:
“The One that God sent speaks God’s words. And don’t think he rations out the Spirit in bits and pieces. The Father loves the Son extravagantly. He turned everything over to him so he could give it away—a lavish distribution of gifts. That is why whoever accepts and trusts the Son gets in on everything, life complete and forever! And that is also why the person who avoids and distrusts the Son is in the dark and doesn’t see life. All he experiences of God is darkness, and an angry darkness at that.” John 3:34-36 (MSG)
I found myself not believing what I had just heard. How could I not believe scripture? I struggled as I did not feel like this was true for me. A lavish distribution of gifts? Has he not seen my time lately with everything? I've had it hard lately with feeling bad and people attacking my work and desires and .... heck, my insurance guy didn't even send me a birthday card!
Then it came back to me, that image of the dragon. I couldn't stand it so I took out my phone and Googled, "dragon peeling heart" and this was the first hit. A blog post recounting the story of Eustace in The Voyage of the Dawn Treader where Eustace has turned rotten and is trying to peel off his skin so that he can get into the living waters that Aslan is near and stop the pain in his arm caused by a bracelet that's now too small.
Eustace tries 3 times then Aslan tells him that he must let him do it. I spent the next worship session in visceral pain as I realized that was me. I was trying and trying so hard to peel away and I needed Jesus to dig His claw in there and rip off the layers. I implored the Lord to do that, with the image of the dragon on his back, exposed and fully submitted to Aslan and I begged for that!
I believe that the Lord met me and took a good amount of that skin off of me that day. I have a little more pep in my step and bounce for the ounce. I realize He isn't done, but I'm looking forward to a semester of laying on my back in submission to the Lord.
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